“This is one of the things I noticed when dealing with old people.
They get to a stage at which more of their loved ones are dead than are living. The folks who have only ever focussed on the things of this world become trapped in this world. They become bitter and their lives in old age become smaller and smaller because there is less and less left. Maybe they end up sitting around playing checkers or watching daytime TV and being sad.
But there are other folks who have lived for the Lord, and so they continue to do so, but it seems more of their time is spent on “the other side”. They develop a kind of calm and radiance, as if the are already there, but just biding their time here. Its like they are dwelling with their friends on the other side and the curtain between this world and the next for them is very thin.”
“Christ is the Lord of the living and the dead, and because of the resurrection the difference between the living and the dead is increasingly immaterial. The dead are not really dead. They are alive in Christ, and the more we live in Christ the more we are in communion and union with them.”
– Dwight Longenecker
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